Hi Gladys. Thanks for being here with us. Our community is great at sharing, and with Donna's suggestions, you'll have some solid recommendations and ideas to try. While my father didn't scratch his skin like the one you care for, I used an oatmeal-based soap and lotion to soothe his dry skin better. Maybe you would like to introduce some fidgets, or if they'd like, they can hold a stuffed animal to avoid picking and scratching. Please let us know if you have additional questions or ideas to share with our community. Respectfully, Nancy Alzheimersdisease.net Team Member