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Abandon

Telling anyone is like saying goodbye. But we need these relationships to get to the end of the journey, it's terrifying 😳 😬 😫

  1. - It's so hard when people walk away when you need them the most. Sometimes, they don't know how to deal with the news. Have you explored a local support group? It can be really helpful to be in a room of people who understand what you are going through. If there is information that you are looking for, or just need to vent, we're here for you, always. Sending you hugs, Patty, Team Member

    1. This journey is terrifying. I cannot imagine the sense of abandonment you must feel. Do others respond in a more positive way? I still recall the specialist my dad had telling my brothers and I that she saw many family members just walk away when their loved one was diagnosed or as the disease progressed. I was dumbfounded. I hope your family and friends know how much you love them and want them to continue in your life. Sometimes their fear gets in the way. Keep reaching out to them. They may turn and surprised you. Hugs. Shelley, community moderator.

      1. That is the a very difficult part of this journey. The more we share, the more some people walk away. So, we are left to deciding whether to disclose and risk and do this alone or don't disclose and do this alone. I find who my true friends are when I bring them into this part of my life and they don't leave. Scott AlzheimersDisease.net Team Member

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