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What can make traveling easier for someone living with Alzheimer's or dementia?

Do you have any tips for a calm traveling experience? What kinds of things do you consider in advance? Do you have any special items that you bring along?

We'd love to hear how you plan to ensure safety, comfort, and enjoyment for everyone along for the ride!

  1. I have a trip coming up to a wedding about 3 hours away. First I hate that we are traveling in the afternoon because I am usually grumpy by them and of course the wedding is in the evening which makes it worse. We are going down the night before so that helps but it's just being away from my normal routine and being around people that I probably won't recognize and it's so humiliating that I wish I could avoid the whole thing. But I don't want to disappoint my husband so I will go any try my best to be polite but I just wanted people to know that it's so frustrating and frightening and if I had my choice I would never go.

    1. Thank you for your thoughtful reply. I appreciate your sensitivity. There is a delicate balance between pushing and pulling back and it's not always easy for me to find it. I guess I tend to be on the side of pulling back where my other co-caregiver is more of a pusher. It's all about learning each day. Scott Team Member

    2. , I hope that you enjoy the wedding. I know that it will be challenging. But you can use some of the tricks you have been learning - limit your exposure, take a break if you need to, leave and come back if it will help you enjoy the event without feeling overloaded. Go to the wedding and skip or make an appearance at the reception, less noise and sensory input.

      Be gentle with yourself during the morning - relax, watch a favorite movie, have a cup of tea, a favorite snack, spend some quiet time with your husband and build up your energy bank.

      I'm wishing you safe travels, and a wonderful visit. We're here if you need a little support. - Warm (((hugs))), Donna (Team Member)

  2. take a nap, I love to do my coloring online, play games on phone, read Bible, talk

    1. Thank you for all of your suggestions. They are good ones and will be helpful to our community. How are you doing? Warmly, Nancy Alzheimersdisease.net Team Member

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