The Slow Goodbye: Grieving for the Living...When I speak about Alzheimer’s disease to individuals who don’t know about it firsthand, I tell them it’s losing your loved one bit by bit, slowly over time, until the...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Balancing the Good and Bad Days: Changes in Alzheimer's Symptoms...Alzheimer's disease is known as a progressive disease, but that doesn't mean there aren't changes on a daily basis that might seem to fluctuate. We have noticed the phenomenon of...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Arlie & Freddie: In Sickness and in Health...My grandfather and grandmother were born in 1913 and 1914, respectively. They married on August 6, 1938 at the end of the Great Depression, and spent the next sixty-six plus...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Technowizardry: Technology Can Be Confusing with Alzheimer's...Technology. It’s one of those can’t-live-with-it-can’t-live-without-it kind of things. I googled to see how many devices a smartphone can replace. One article says 50. It’s a nice, round number, but...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Illusions, Delusions, and Paranoia in Alzheimer's: What's the Connection?...Understanding symptoms of Alzheimer's disease and related dementia is hard because symptoms vary so much between people and as they change over the course of the disease—and even from day-to-day!...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Becoming a Caregiver After Childhood Abuse...To make this short, I am 69 years old and was abused sexually by my father. I tried to tell my mother, but she called me a liar and did...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
The Days are Long But the Years are Short...When my kids were little, older parents would always tell me, wistfully, that the time flies, to enjoy my time with these little ones because it goes by so fast...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
A Rose by Any Other Name: Labeling Alzheimer's Disease...What’s in a name? Shakespeare, via Romeo & Juliet, figured a rose by another name would still smell as sweet. I’m not convinced. As a kid, the ultimate defense of...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Live Like There's No Tomorrow: Hold On to Memories...The gravity and finality of an end, any end, is never clear until it happens. Procrastination is a major character flaw for me. I wait until the last minute to...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Daddy Visits My Dreams: Remembering Our Loved Ones Who Passed Away...I dreamed about Daddy about three days after he died. It was such an emotional roller coaster that I still remember it in graphic detail years later. I got the...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Reflections on the Movie 'Still Alice' (2015)...Still Alice, a movie starring Julianne Moore about a Columbia University professor suffering from early-onset Alzheimer’s was released on February 20, 2015. My wife, Barbara, passed away due to complications...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
To B(ath)e or Not to B(ath)e?...The showerhead drenched my shirt as tried to coax my wife, Barbara, to stay under the water long enough to rinse out the shampoo. A recent article on this site...Reactions0reactionsComments2 comments
A Jagged Little Pill: Remembering To Take Medication with Alzheimer's...The role reversal between parent and child is the last farewell to childhood. You always want your mom or dad to be the ultimate counselor in your corner. No one...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Grief Has No Timeline: Remembering My Dad on His Birthday...Yesterday was my Dad’s birthday. He would have been 89 years old. Dad passed from Alzheimer’s a little over two years ago. It still hurts. I still miss him. I...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
Struggling Not to Be So Sad...I have been married for 44 years. We have been through several tragedies and made it through them all. Let me start by saying there are 27 years between us...Reactions0reactionsComments5 comments
Innovations for Safety: Location Tracking Devices...A few years ago, a friend and I tried to figure out a creative solution to give her peace of mind around her little dude with autism. After a few...Reactions0reactionsComments1 comments
"Dignity, Always Dignity!": Preserving Dignity for People with Alzheimer's...Singin’ in the Rain is one of my family’s favorite movies. Gene Kelly as Don Lockwood is being interviewed on the red carpet about his rise to fame and fortune...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
COVID-19 Updates, July 16: Updates on People at Risk, Testing, Reopening, and a Vaccine...Even after months of navigating life in the COVID-19 era, keeping up with new information and news can be overwhelming. Below are some of the latest developments surrounding COVID-19 for...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments
“Who are you?”...I have been married to my husband for 42 years. We spent 24/7 together as we owned our own business. We spent the majority of our free time together. I...Reactions0reactionsComments3 comments
Before Long-Term Care: Planning for the Future with Alzheimer's...No longer being able to keep your loved one at home is a point most caregivers will reach. It's not an easy decision to make, and it's one of the...Reactions0reactionsComments0 comments